Life throws curveballs

At times life throws curve balls just like Lee's bouncers you have to be Sharpe to duck under it... At times you also gotta exhibit some pre emptive footwork to hook it for Six !

Black Magic Woman

There she was sitting on back seat of my car, Dressed in pristine white glittering though moon light, 

She is my black magic woman, She looks at me with her big black eyes and curls dangling on her shoulders. 

Ohh Yeah she is my black magic woman ! She with her sumptuous smile brightens my life, The sparkling radiance of her eyes makes me skip my heart beat Ohh she is my black magic

 Woman!

 It was Navy Ball and she wore captains cap with a slight tilt, My heart raced again, irresistible she was, a cult combination of innocence and mischief in right proportion, She gazed and laughed at me with her back big eyes Ohh she was my black magic woman, 

I step out of car and the clock rings 9, Off she goes my black magic Woman !

Divine

Chants ringing in my ears,

Humming , hissing feels a holy bliss, Divine is deep within.

We need to step out of our mundane life to breath free,

Holy men, vedic chants, I dont know the powers of Divine !!

Belief has powers to transform a rock into divine source of power !

Marraige your choice why should strangers Rejoice !

Marriage in India is a topic of public interest after cricket and Arnab's show, the most juiciest piece would be getting somebody married.

Trust me immediate family is not so desperate to push prospective bride or groom but some extra social elements like Cousin-Dadi , Bickering Chachi, Clingy Mausi, Bitchy Mami.

Ageing of whiskey and bride /Groom are complete antithesis in true sense.

If I have to draw a parallel it follows an exact pattern of Time decay of an option.  You are dead if you dont unwind your position before expiry.

  You face inevitable death if you dont marry within prescribed age limit.

And when you chuck yourself and redeem of this noise...your best buddy pokes nose.."no dude I mean seriously think of settling down..."

Settling Down ! I am sorry marriage can on contrary be unsettling experience for few.

Well I can't say getting married is like consuming the holy water or one step towards divine invincibility.

But I believe it should be a non event for crowd to create noise...

It a choice of two individual people ...which is celebrated by the world except the partied involved in the act.

I am not against marriage but against the undue importance the world gives to it...

PS:- The context is inspired from a dialogue between friend planning to tie the knot. Also inspired from movie pyar ka punch nama.

Crony capitalist corporate world

I hate to play the games which people cherish to play, 

Call me a submissive straight jacket bastard, 

Where free men cant walk without being deceptive and dishonest ! 

Always play the oneupmanship battle, 

Without focusing on the larger good ! Fighting for piece of bread just Stealing from a hungry kid for conquest ! Crushing millions of heads for that illusive throne.. This is a place where humanity was abolished long back Whats left are zombies who just churn dollars for the lord. Crony capitalism at its best I need a redemption I need a redemption..

Random Particle

An insatiable urge runs through my body,
A desperate state to break free,
Freedom is achieved,
Still feel captivated in an invisible skeleton of tasks,
Confined by realms of rules!
Unwritten not scripted but followed to the T.
Direction less random particle just can traverse only in its field
Unlike a particle that can randomly travel galaxies,
What is the purpose ? Why was it created?
Are few questions....and the biggest one of them all..!
Can it create a dent in the universe ?

Tom & Jerry- Alter Egos

Its funny how our alter ego can be, you will be surprised to see a complete antithesis of you, the you that you never dreamt to be in your worst nightmares.

Its like two pop ups of devil and angle that use to appear above Tom's head in the famous classic toon Tom& Jerry. We all have darker shades.  Its when hues and Grey's collide they give rise to inexplicably shades.

Let's call the devilish part of our personality as Tom( for simplicity sake), who can be ruthless mean nasty, vengeful, sadist, and all the adjectives one can think that have a negative connotations.

And Jerry would be the nice guy, innocence personified, a victim ,just looking out for his price of cheese and shelter in the world.

We have both the characters within us, one super-cedes other, but intent fully its Jerry who tries to pop out first.

And then we also have have Toms deep within us rising to occasion popping their head out, just bursting to unleash the fury.

Have we ever analysed why our bad side can be so nasty ? So dark...?

Its our Jerry side ( The good guy public image) fuels the intense Tom deep within us. Jerry as a character  is very mischievous has fun almost pulls a trick on Tom, but always covers himself up with veil of innocence.

The suppression of Tom at all points of time makes him more Nastier. So its important to let go your emotions .Be yourself and dont worry of protecting a public image and creating right perceptions.

Being yourself is more important than living under a facade of goodness. Small things like being blunt (and not rude) saying no ( without disrespect turning down) is very important.

You can't always say Yes, you can't  always play a fairy godmother.
I am not saying be a nasty step mom, I am saying its important to be a little selfish at times.

Most of you might feel I am not using the correct adjectives, but I am using the precise words. Its very important to think of yourself nurture yourself as you can't be a giver all the times.

At times you need to demand the Universe what is rightfully yours, and there is no harm in it.

Both our alter egos should be given freedom so as one doesn't dominate other and you liberate and live a sane and balanced life.

No One predicted Life! It follows a chaotic pattern!