Arrange Marriage Perceptions

Arrange Marriage

In India like any other free liberal Democracy, we tend to build perceptions consciously or subconsciously. They are a baby of our behaviour patterns and unfulfilled desires.

As they say the journey is sweeter than destination...

Relationship is a journey, we all evolve

Perception Indian Women have about Men:-

>For them the difference between Shaadi.com and a Porno site is just cloths.

Blessed with a x ray vision to drill through the fabric, and look beyond it.
So much so, can run the analytical algorithms which throw the correct dimensions of the object under observation with implacable accuracy.

>Obsessed with Love making on the minds  rather than love itself.

>Intoxication leads to instantaneous mortality, even done with desecration or a prescription.

Perception Indian Men have about Women

>Men come in shapes of Salaman Khan and Hrithik Roshan, and are always as romantic as SRK, and when the tender sex weaves these dreams, those rooms obviously don't have weighing scales or mirrors.

>Self obsessed with beauty (again self proclaimed) which is imperishable.

> Driving a Car is like , navigating an intergalactic  space-craft , and cannot be done by the fairer sex without scratches and scars.

 >Food in the neighbor's plate and Man on best friends bed is/are always delicious, and the pie which you have to deal with is always not fulfilling. Applies to men as well as food.

>Never are satisfied, emotionally, financially or physically.

> If i would have waited just a little longer my prince charming would have picked me in his Scarlet Ferrari.

And all i end up with is Red Maruti.

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I start for work early,

I try to stay in late,

Confrontation with mirror in itself throws a million questions,

Have I lost my charm?

Are the circles getting darker by the day,

Forget a second look,

Now I wonder, even if I get noticed,

After dinner I open the flap of miniature idiot box,

Run through matrimony site,

In search of the one!

Aspirations, expectations and time,

Don't quite fit in the same bowl of reality,

Peer pressure is a funny bunny,

You don't quite enjoy anything with joy,

And life is filled to brim with emptiness,

In my world which is falling apart,

You seem to be bring in baton of hope,

Suddenly life has meaning,

And i feel time travel is not a myth,

But then all of a sudden just like a desert storm,

All withers away,

You are gone!

And search is on...