Truth about faliure

Failure be it of any kind teaches you lesson, given the fact you are Man enough to digest it, understand it, accept it, work on it! ... and cherish the fruits it bears in future!

Pleasure in Pain

Every Battle is won or lost before it is fought, the sheer fear of loosing forces men to back out & it's not the failure that we are afraid of, its "possibility of failure & its repercussion on our public image" that defeat's us. One might ask why so ?, it can be mainly attributed to
1)Exploration of unchartered territories & experiences.
2)Living your life on others expectation ( Living a dream which was never yours, but somebody else's aspirations which you have subconsciously picked up).
Trust me even the best fall victim to the 2'nd category.

We hardly know how to cope up with circumstances to which we are alien's. As kids. we were always taught "Success is Good Failure is Bad", and that is where i feel parents go wrong, success & failures in life are states of mind & that's it, you don't fail unless u consider that you have.Never believed in a piece of paper that testify's ones worth, weather it be a grade-sheet, performance report or appraisal document. These papers bind our potential in numbers, whereas it is actually infinite. We tend to relax as we get our set target's,grades or goals.

Success is a state of mind & should lead to happiness, which is always a process.

But failures are equally important

If you ask me a lost battle can be an excellent strategic lesson if learn't, your mistakes always teach you something or the other.

Adversity is always painful & fruitful, it teaches us some lesson's which are never learnt in normal course of life,there lies immense pleasure in pain which is fortunately realized only during good times. In a difficult phase we tend to value what we have, those could be materialistic possession's or sheer abilities that we posses, remember no one can take your abilities away, its you who has o realize they exist. History has testimonial to the fact that Men who have seen set backs are better off taking risk's & making it big as somewhere down the line they know they have nothing lose

These are my favorite lines which i heard from some one  " There is a Pleasure in being Mad, Pleasure which few Big Mad men know"

Mystical Life

It’s been a while I haven’t written something, and I am doing this after lot of soul searching.


Life was never meant to be easy fair or nice, it is that nasty opponent which will time & again throw punches at you & especially when you least expect it. It’s not about getting up, being strong, fighting back & hitting it harder but sometimes it’s about sustaining the punches &; not get knocked out.
We all go through lean mean & bone dry patches in life; when we start to question our existence in the Universe and our ability to control it, leave alone control just our capacity to influence the elements in & around us.
In situations like these sometimes it’s best to let go, we always have a script in mind and if things don’t go according to plan, we are disappointed, & unhappy. But if we try and see carefully we are prisoners of our own device. We create certain set of expectations from our course of life & if the movie does not belong to the same genre we are obviously upset.
So what am I trying to say to have no aspirations, no dreams & goals? Absolutely not!
A man is no man without a mission, I am saying we should not have attachment to our aspirations, the key likes in re assessing what you want from life after every checkpoint if we redefine our goals, it would be a much easy task.
So how will one concur I have reached a checkpoint & hey I better reassess the goals, the answer lies within & you inner- self will never lie about it.

Quotes

Lance is Epitome of inspiration..

and i could not find a better fitting person.
> start believing in yourself and you can stretch the realms of possibility to infinity”

> “In a phase of adversity, its easy to be disheartened or devastated, but better be disappointed, because disappointment breeds champions”

> “ If you don’t risk anything you are running the biggest risk of your life”

> “ Vengeance is sweeter than honey!, but unfortunately not fruitful”

> “ If your will is superior, destiny crumbles”

> “Theirs a pleasure in being mad , Theirs a pleasure in being mad which few big mad men know”

> “You are not given dreams just because you don’t have the power to fulfill them”

> “No man is great,
the challenges that lie ahead of him are great, which in turn make him great”-inspired from movie VIRRUDH

> “At times you might be too close to the trees,
to see the woods and at times you might be so far away from woods that you cant see the trees”

> “ Average is equally near from the top as from the bottom
the choice is yours”

The Afgan Girl

Look into my eyes,

There’s something mystical,

No I am not a being cynical,

Look deep into them,

You will see a story,

Story about a land,

Standing tall in the ruins,

It’s barren,

It’s treacherous,

It’s rocky,

Life is hard,

Beware there is no safeguard,

Yes I am the Afghan girl,

The sheen of youth in my eyes,

Is replaced by dry deep, hollow sorrow,

It’s Rule of Taliban,

And death of common Afghan,

Even cattle get a better treatment than me,

Does this fact rattle you?

Even my Father can’t see my face,

No you will not understand my helpless case!

Taliban falls,

My destiny calls,

I have a ray of hope for my young ones,

There will be freedom,

But really can we be free,

Looks like it could never be,

I dream, I dream for life of respect and dignity!

Hope this will be a reality .