Tom & Jerry- Alter Egos

Its funny how our alter ego can be, you will be surprised to see a complete antithesis of you, the you that you never dreamt to be in your worst nightmares.

Its like two pop ups of devil and angle that use to appear above Tom's head in the famous classic toon Tom& Jerry. We all have darker shades.  Its when hues and Grey's collide they give rise to inexplicably shades.

Let's call the devilish part of our personality as Tom( for simplicity sake), who can be ruthless mean nasty, vengeful, sadist, and all the adjectives one can think that have a negative connotations.

And Jerry would be the nice guy, innocence personified, a victim ,just looking out for his price of cheese and shelter in the world.

We have both the characters within us, one super-cedes other, but intent fully its Jerry who tries to pop out first.

And then we also have have Toms deep within us rising to occasion popping their head out, just bursting to unleash the fury.

Have we ever analysed why our bad side can be so nasty ? So dark...?

Its our Jerry side ( The good guy public image) fuels the intense Tom deep within us. Jerry as a character  is very mischievous has fun almost pulls a trick on Tom, but always covers himself up with veil of innocence.

The suppression of Tom at all points of time makes him more Nastier. So its important to let go your emotions .Be yourself and dont worry of protecting a public image and creating right perceptions.

Being yourself is more important than living under a facade of goodness. Small things like being blunt (and not rude) saying no ( without disrespect turning down) is very important.

You can't always say Yes, you can't  always play a fairy godmother.
I am not saying be a nasty step mom, I am saying its important to be a little selfish at times.

Most of you might feel I am not using the correct adjectives, but I am using the precise words. Its very important to think of yourself nurture yourself as you can't be a giver all the times.

At times you need to demand the Universe what is rightfully yours, and there is no harm in it.

Both our alter egos should be given freedom so as one doesn't dominate other and you liberate and live a sane and balanced life.

No One predicted Life! It follows a chaotic pattern!